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Gwyneth Paltrow signs books on May 19, 2017 in Seattle, Washington.  (Photo by Mat Hayward/Getty Images)
Gwyneth Paltrow signs books on May 19, 2017 in Seattle, Washington. (Photo by Mat Hayward/Getty Images)

Off the grid

Gwyneth Paltrow publicly scolded by daughter for sharing a picture of her on Instagram

By WITW Staff on March 29, 2019

Gwyneth Paltrow’s 14-year-old daughter, Apple Martin, publicly scolded her mother for sharing photos of her online without her consent this week.

Paltrow had posted a photo on Instagram of herself and Martin at a ski resort. In the photo, Martin’s face is largely obscured by a helmet and goggles. But in a comment on Paltrow’s post, the teenager made it clear that she wanted to decide what images of herself her celebrity mom shares with her 5.3 million followers on the social media platform.

“Mom we have discussed this,” wrote Martin on the post. “You may not post anything without my consent.”

“You can’t even see your face!” replied Paltrow.

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Martin’s comment, which has since been deleted, prompted a discussion online. Some criticized Apple for making her mother look bad, while others argued that parents need to respect their children’s right to control their own social media image.

Martin’s reaction, said Joanne Orlando, a researcher in technology and learning at Western Sydney University, was “not unusual and not uncalled for.”

“They don’t have any control over what their parents are putting up, or what comments their parents are adding to photos or videos, but we all know our digital lives are increasingly important. So they want to gain control over it when they’re able to,” she said.

In some countries, lawmakers are already passing measures that force parents to respect their children’s right to privacy. In France, for example, news laws threaten parents with fines or even jail time if they share photos online that violate their children’s privacy.

Interested in this topic? Come to the Women in the World Summit on April 11 to hear our participants discuss teens and tech on the panel, “Parenting in the Screen Age.” Learn more about the summit here, and get your tickets here.

Read the full story at The Guardian.


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